Dad loved bright colours, music (especially Abba) and fun

Dad loved bright colours, music (especially Abba) and fun

“So it’s for him that I’ll be lacing up my walking shoes and getting dressed in neon and colourful lights to walk Leckhampton Court Hospice’s Starlight Hike”

In this blog post, 39 year old mum of twins, Jude Wilcox, shares why she’ll be walking 10k under the stars in memory of her dad on Saturday 19th October 2019.

“My brave, full of character Dad was diagnosed with cancer of the Oesophagus in October 2016. This was a massive shock to us and told with treatment he would have a year to live.” 

He didn’t shy away from his cancer

“He carried on with playing bowls, volunteering at the Soldiers Museum, being an amazing Papa to my 6 year old twin boys; just his usual life. He confidently told all who he met, friends, family and strangers he was dying. He did not shy away from his cancer. He planned his funeral and even chose that we were to leave the funeral service to ‘Dancing Queen’.” 

“He did get worse and things did slow down and we then discovered the cancer was also in his lungs.” 

“At the end of December we were first introduced to my Dad’s new consultant at Sue Ryder. He was amazing. He supported my Mum regularly emailing her, ringing her up as she had taken over full time care of my Dad and all of his medical needs. He took my phone calls and answered my concerns and questions. We had someone who very quickly got to know us as a family and helped to support us through all of the pain and confusion we were going through.”

They were so caring so we knew this was the best place for Dad

“My Mum and I eventually got to breaking point caring for Dad. We were so scared and worried about his weight loss and deteriorating body. We went to visit the Sue Ryder Hospice, they were so caring, so understanding and we knew this would be the best place for Dad.” 

“A day later, off Dad went to the hospice and they were just fantastic. We were welcomed with open arms at the most devastating moment of our lives. The hospice didn’t just see a patient they saw and cared for us as a whole family.”

“Sadly, Dad passed away early morning on Saturday 21st January 2017. We were with him, as he had wanted.” 

I wanted to help others going through this too

“I knew I had to channel my grief into something positive and I wanted to help others going through this too, so we starting raising funds for the hospice. We reached our fundraising target of £1000 for the hospice just six months after Dad had passed away and we have continued supporting the hospice since through taking part in Starlight Hike.”

“My Dad loved bright colours, music (especially Abba) and fun so for him the show will go on as I get my walking shoes on!”

“This will be my third year of taking part in the event. Our team ‘Let’s Hike for Mike’ will all be dressed in neon and colourful lights as we walk.”

Rachael Yates, Sadie Murray, Jude Wilcox and Debra Waller, walking in memory of Jude’s father Mike Wilson, who died at the Sue Ryder hopsice in January 2017. Well over 500 people took part in the Starlight Hike around Cheltenham on Saturday night, fundraising for the Sue Ryder Leckhampton Court Hospice. 20/10/2018 Picture by Andrew Higgins – Thousand Word Media. Photo submitted on behalf of Sue Ryder Leckhampton Court Hospice, free for use in connection with editorial on the Starlight Hike event only. NO SALES, NO SYNDICATION. Contact for more information mob: 07775556610 web: www.thousandwordmedia.com email: antony@thousandwordmedia.com The photographic copyright (© 2018) is exclusively retained by the works creator at all times and sales, syndication or offering the work for future publication to a third party without the photographer’s knowledge or agreement is in breach of the Copyright Designs and Patents Act 1988, (Part 1, Section 4, 2b). Please contact the photographer should you have any questions with regard to the use of the attached work and any rights involved.

Jude will walk alongside hundreds of others on a marshalled 10K route around Cheltenham. Starting at St Edwards Prep School in Charlton Kings with live music performances from Rock Choir, an energetic Clubbercise warm up and uplifting party atmosphere the route takes walkers to the softly lit hospice grounds where there is time to remember loved ones by leaving a message on a wall of stars. 

You can donate to Jude’s Starlight Hike Challenge at https://www.justgiving.com/fundraising/Jude-Wilcox1

Or you walk alongside Jude at Starlight Hike 2019 on Saturday 19th October. 

Sign up www.sueryder.org/leckhamptonslh

Email leckhampton.events@sueryder.org

This blog has been published in paid partnership with the wonderful folks at Sue Ryder, Leckhampton Court.


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